I say it doesnt matter when you finish the race..as long as you cross the finish line. And as far as us finishing last.......yes I consider myself a good girl...I will rather take my time and finish last. They say, with time everything....including people's personality(ies), will be revealed under the sun. So take your time and let the games begin. However, I will say this. As a "nice guy/girl you cannot bear the burden of the world or carry everyone's cross. Most of the time, people have the CAPACITY to take care of their problems but would rather be lazy or take advantage of the kindness of others Shakespeare wrote it best in As You Like It JAQUES: All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players : They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts, His acts being seven ages. At first the infant, Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms. And then the whining school-boy, wi...