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Nutrition advice is everywhere and much of it contradicts itself. For a long time, that noise made eating feel complicated — as if every meal needed to be optimized, measured, or justified.  Over time, I learned to simplify. One principle I return to often is this: I try to stay as close to the natural state of food as possible.  Not perfectly. Not rigidly. Just in orientation. What that means, in practice, is choosing foods that resemble what they were before heavy processing,  vegetables that still look like plants, grains that haven’t been stripped of everything recognizable, meals that feel assembled rather than engineered.  This isn’t always possible, and that’s okay. Life includes travel , long days, limited options, and seasons where convenience matters.  The goal isn’t purity. It’s direction . Balanced meals, for me, are built around a few steady anchors: variety, satisfaction, and attentiveness. I aim to include different food groups , to eat ...

There’s a quiet reality that doesn’t get talked about enough.  Living as a single person is expensive.   One income carries everything. Rent. Groceries. Bills. Emergencies. There’s no one to split the cost, no second paycheck to create margin. What others share, as singles, we carry alone. Some call it the “ single tax .”  Recently, I watched a video by The Financial Diet titled “ What Nobody Tells You About Being the Single Friend .” It put words to something many of us feel but don’t always say out loud. The video highlights the hidden costs of being single. The way expenses stack up differently. The social expectations. The financial, emotional and mental weight that often goes unseen. And watching it, I realized how true it is. There are moments when the numbers don’t seem to stretch far enough. When the budget feels tight before the month even begins. When you find yourself quietly wondering how everything will come together.  This is where faith b...

 As an African living in the West, I’ve found myself in the slow, intentional process of unlearning diet culture . This unlearning hasn’t been simple, because diet culture here in North America doesn’t just tell us how to eat — it tells us whose food is worthy, healthy, and legitimate. In Western wellness spaces , “healthy eating” is often framed through a narrow cultural lens. Certain foods are celebrated, researched, marketed, and elevated as superior, while others — especially foods from non-Western cultures — are dismissed as unhealthy, heavy, or indulgent. This framing is not neutral. It reflects power, history, and whose knowledge is considered credible. Growing up, the foods of my culture were never designed to fit Western food pyramids or wellness trends — yet they sustained generations. They were built on balance, seasonality, community, and survival. These foods nourished bodies long before they were filtered through calorie counts, macro ratios, or Instagram aesthet...

Stress is unavoidable, but overwhelm doesn’t have to be constant.  I’ve learned that small, steady practices are far more effective than dramatic interventions.  These are a few simple ways I support my nervous system — practices that fit into real days, not ideal ones. Stress is part of life. What overwhelms us isn’t always the stress itself — it’s the lack of consistent or healthy ways to release it. I’ve learned that small, steady practices are far more effective than dramatic interventions. The following are simple tools I return to regularly — not because they’re impressive, but because they work. 1. Intentional pauses Short moments of stillness throughout the day help interrupt the buildup of tension before it compounds. 2. Gentle movement Walking, hiking, stretching, or light movement helps release stress stored in the body without demanding extra energy. 3. Engaging in Hobbies Engaging in an enjoyable activity shifts the focus from the stressor and offers a healthy d...

The Cure for Being Human reads less like a book written for the public and more like a private journal released into the world. At its core, it documents, the author - Kate Bowler ’s cancer diagnosis, immunotherapies, and confrontation with mortality, alongside a deep internal struggle with faith, meaning, and belief in the face of suffering. The questions raised are old ones, heavy with history: Why does suffering exist? What happens to belief when the body fails and certainty dissolves? Where is the balance between faith and toxic positivity ? Is the bucket list problematic? These are not posed from a place of theological distance, but from inside fear, pain, and uncertainty.  Being sick has a way of narrowing the world. It strips away assumptions of control and reminds us how fragile we are, how little power we actually hold, and how quickly everything familiar can disappear. In that sense, the book is honest. It captures the disorientation that comes when life is interrupted b...