PSA of the day: When a Man Loves a Woman

I needed some extra strength to get through my relationship crisis especially with valentine's day looming around the corner. After searching online for words of wisdom, encouragement and perseverance, I came across these words. I have read this somewhere else before and may have even posted part of it on my blog. Nevertheless, today, I needed to Read this and remind myself that I am worthy.

IF a man wants you, nothing can make him go.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve

Then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think, “it will get better.”

 You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.

He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior, change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or is in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships… there is nothing cute about baggage

Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…

A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…

Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes… 

When a man always knows where you are and you’re always readily available to him  

He takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies…..

You’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINKS his/her choices, and
another man/woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them!